1
Gather personal and family records
Collect legal names, dates of birth, Social Security or tax ID numbers, and contact details for yourself, your spouse or partner, and all dependents. Confirm the exact spelling of all names against government-issued ID.
π‘ Cross-check names against birth certificates and passports β a single-character mismatch in a beneficiary's name can delay account transfers by weeks.
2
Build a complete asset inventory
List every asset you own β real estate, bank and brokerage accounts, retirement accounts, life insurance policies, vehicles, business interests, and valuable personal property. Include the institution name, account number (last four digits), and an estimated current value for each.
π‘ Pull your most recent account statements and tax return to make sure nothing is missed. Assets you forget to list are exactly the ones executors spend months tracking down.
3
Document all liabilities
Record outstanding mortgages, auto loans, credit card balances, personal loans, and any business debts. Include the lender, approximate balance, and monthly payment for each.
π‘ Request a free credit report to catch any accounts you may have forgotten β old store cards and small personal loans are routinely overlooked.
4
Name beneficiaries with contingency designations
Assign a primary and at least one contingent beneficiary to each asset category. Specify the distribution method β lump sum, trust, or installments β and the timeline for each.
π‘ After completing this section, log in to each financial institution and verify that the beneficiary designation on the account itself matches what you have written here.
5
Select and document your executor and agents
Name an executor for your estate, a financial power of attorney agent, and a healthcare proxy. For each, record their full legal name, relationship, phone number, and email address. Confirm with each person that they are willing to serve.
π‘ Name an alternate for each role β primary designees sometimes predecease the planner or become unable to serve, and having a named backup prevents a court appointment.
6
Write specific healthcare preferences
State your preferences for life-sustaining treatment, resuscitation, organ donation, and end-of-life care in plain, specific language. Avoid vague language like 'do what you think is best.'
π‘ Share a copy of the completed healthcare directive section with your doctor and your designated healthcare proxy so they each have a current version on file.
7
Catalog digital assets separately
List every significant online account, cryptocurrency holding, and digital subscription. Write access instructions and specify what should happen to each account β transfer, memorialize, or close.
π‘ Store passwords and seed phrases in a password manager or sealed envelope in a secure physical location β never inside the estate plan document itself.
8
Review and update annually
Set a calendar reminder to review the plan every 12 months and after every major life event β marriage, divorce, birth, death, or acquisition of significant assets. Update beneficiary designations on individual accounts at the same time.
π‘ Date each revision at the top of the document so your executor always knows which version is current.